Title: Is the Average Guy That Unsuccessful on Tinder?
Introduction:
Tinder has become one of the most popular dating apps worldwide, offering users the opportunity to connect with potential partners based on appearance and compatibility. However, some individuals, including the author of a Reddit post, have expressed frustration with their lack of success on the app. This article aims to explore whether the average guy faces difficulties in finding matches on Tinder and how they can navigate the dating app with better outcomes.
The Challenge of Attractiveness:
The author acknowledges that they may not be considered conventionally attractive and humorously refers to themselves as a combination of characters from “My 600-Lb Life” and “Freddy Krueger.” Despite this self-assessment, the author expresses surprise and disappointment at their limited success on Tinder. It prompts the question: Do most average guys face similar challenges?
The First Week Matters:
The author mentions reading about the importance of the first week on Tinder, where 90% of success is supposedly achieved. After a brief hiatus, they returned to the platform, deleted their old account, and purchased a week of Tinder Gold. Despite these measures, they still encountered difficulties in finding matches.
Selective Swiping and Profile Improvement:
To increase their chances of finding suitable matches, the author states that they made an effort to be selective in their swiping, focusing on individuals they felt they could reasonably date. While their profile may not be the best due to having only two pictures, they tried to compensate by completing as much information and responding to prompts on the app.
Is This the Norm?
The author questions whether their experience is common for men on Tinder. They seek insights from others on how they continue using the app despite limited success.
Conclusion:
Based on the author’s perspective and personal experience, it appears that even average guys can encounter challenges in finding matches on Tinder. However, it is important to remember that success on the app can vary greatly depending on various factors, including personal preferences, attractiveness, profile presentation, and messaging skills. While some individuals may find success quickly, others may need to be patient and persistent. Overall, improving one’s profile, being selective in swiping, and keeping a positive attitude can all contribute to a more successful experience on Tinder.
Personal Experience:
So I’ll admit it, I’m not the most attractive guy in the world, fuck I’m probably a good stand-in for a mashup of “My 600-lb Life” and Freddy Krueger, but surely most people are more successful on Tinder than I am?
I originally had the app for a week and managed to get 3 matches, 2 of which unmatched after the first message (damn, man), and one of which I just couldn’t feel anything for. I then stopped using the app for a few weeks due to life stuff, but I read that 90% of success comes in the first week, so I re-downloaded the app and created a new account by deleting the old one. I also decided to purchase a week of Tinder Gold.
Yet, I’ll admit, I’ve been swiping for nearly 2 days straight and I still haven’t had any success. I’m trying my best to be selective in my swiping, specifically choosing people I could semi-reasonably expect to date, but I still haven’t found any matches. Now, my profile isn’t the best since I only have 2 pictures, but I did try to provide as much information as possible and answer the prompts.
Is this the typical experience for guys on Tinder? If so, how do you all keep using it?
